“Please I need your opinion on this. I’m married with a baby, but the marriage is less than two years and I’m planning to divorce my wife. Less than nine months into this marriage I realised my wife was HIV positive. I don’t know if she was HIV positive before our wedding or if she contracted it after our wedding since we did not do HIV test before our wedding. She was two months pregnant before she travelled to see her parents in another state which was four months after our wedding. It was while she was with them I learnt of her HIV status.
Aunty Amara, suicide was one of the things I contemplated on seriously but because of my love for God I refused to take my own life. Well, I have done HIV test up to fifteen times both in private and public hospitals and the result is negative. I have cried severally because of this because of this my BP is always high sometimes 180/140.
Since this incidence, I have refused to live with her because of fear of being infected. Sex is totally out of it all since the feelings for sex towards her have died off. My family and hers are not happy with me because of my inability to live with her. Financially and materially, I take care of her and the baby. If I see happy couples, I used to shed tears because that was what I desired but cannot have it. Love, intimacy or sex is totally out of this union and nobody knows all this up until now. Please advise me as your younger brother on what to do since I see her now as a younger sister and not as my wife.”HIV AIDS
-amaraofficial.com
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